★★★★★ 5.0 from 115 client reviews · Degree in psychology · Clients coached for up to 3 years
Most men are bailing water.
You match, you text, you go on a date. Sometimes it feels like it's working.
Then it goes quiet. It stays friendly. She replies slower. You don't know why.
So you work harder. More apps. More advice. More rereading her messages.
Asking friends what to send. Watching another video that contradicts the last one.
That's bailing water.
It keeps you afloat. It never gets you anywhere. And it's exhausting.
The problem isn't effort. There's a hole in the hull, and nobody has shown you where it is.
Sound familiar?
You're confident everywhere except with women you actually like
You rewrite a text four times before you send it
Dates go fine, then nothing happens
It stays friendly and never turns romantic
You get attached faster than she does
You've consumed everything and you're more confused than when you started
Client: "Dude Al, I'm seeing 3 girls at the same time, I need to pick and choose which one I want to make my gf. If you told me this would happen to me 2 months ago, I would tell you you're full of shit."
Alp: "Ahahaha, and that's exactly why I didn't tell you."
— Client, 2 months into coaching
You don't have an information problem.
You've already watched more dating advice than most coaches.
The reason nothing sticks:
The advice is generic. Your leak is specific. You fix your texting when the real problem is attraction.
Every source contradicts the last. Pursue her. Pull back. Wait three days.
No one has ever seen what you actually do. No feedback, so the same pattern repeats.
Tactics break the moment the situation changes. Without understanding why, you're guessing.
Your dating life is a pipeline. Most men have one main leak.
Meeting — enough of the right opportunities
Attraction — turning conversation from friendly to romantic
Momentum — texting and logistics that turn interest into dates
Connection — dates that build instead of fizzle
Direction — choosing well, relationships, knowing when to walk away
We find where yours breaks. Then we fix it on three levels:
Mindset — why you do what you do (and stop overthinking it)
Skill — how to communicate, flirt and lead
Practice — real situations, step by step, until it's second nature
Find the leak. Fix it with the correct knowledge and practice. Build the skill so you don't need me.
What changes
You know what's happening in a conversation and what to do next
Attraction is clear, not accidental
A slow reply doesn't ruin your day
Dates lead somewhere
You choose — instead of hoping to be chosen
You stop bailing water. You take the wheel.
The Dating Reset
12 weeks of private coaching, built around your life and your situation.
Diagnosis first. Session one maps your pipeline and sets clear, measurable goals.
Weekly strategy sessions. 50 minutes, one on one, every week.
Support between sessions. Message me Monday–Friday. Replies within 12 hours, usually much faster.
Your real texts, dates and profile. You write it, I review it and explain why — so the skill becomes yours.
Weekly practice. One real-world assignment, 2–3 hours a week.
Progress you can see. Midpoint review at week 6. A plan to keep going on your own at week 12.
Like working with three coaches at once.
I have a degree in psychology and counseled men before becoming a dating coach.
Men kept coming to me with the same problem: they couldn't build real romantic connections with women. The uncomfortable part was that I was stuck in the same place myself.
Then I met a mentor with years of real-world experience in attraction, and I went deep into female psychology and how men and women actually connect.
What came out of it is one complete system built from three things most coaches only have one of:
Psychology — why you do what you do
Female psychology — how attraction actually works
Real-world experience — what works live, not in theory
What clients say
Individual results vary and depend on the work you put in.
Two reviews from the same returning Fiverr client · United States
★★★★★
At this point, the progress I've made with Al is well beyond what I was originally aiming for. If you told me that this is how far I would make it before we started, I would have not taken you seriously at all. We are now tackling things that weren't part of the original plan and part of me is astonished. I'm so happy I've made it this far this quick. I count the minutes until each week's debrief. I seriously can't wait to discuss each week's progress with Al and have him tell me what I did well and what still needs work. I cannot recommend him enough. He is a godsend
Al has proven to me the value of his contribution time and time again. Whenever I start thinking that I’m past a big stage and have reached somewhere close to my peak potential, he shows me how much better I can get and outlines a detailed plan on how I can get there. He has made sure that I have surpassed my original expectations by far and have reached way beyond where I thought I would. I could not be happier to have found Al. His responsiveness to messages in between sessions is one of my favorite things about him. I get to have immediate feedback regarding my performance. I’m convinced that this has accelerated my learning significantly and I am so thankful to him for that.
I’m currently still going through the program, but I can already see a big difference in the way I think and approach dating. The coaching has been helping me rewire my mindset, and break old habits that were holding me back. What I really appreciate is that it’s not just about “lines” or quick tricks it’s structured and focused on long-term results.
Very good experience with Alp. He helped me overcome approach anxiety and give nice advices for strong relationship. Definitely feel the progress after just 4 meetings with him. He stays responsive for messages and shows interest in your development. Recommend to anyone looking to improve their relationships
Al's approach is transformative, offering unique insights into dating. He digs deep to address root causes, providing not just solutions but genuine understanding. His knowledge and empathy make him an outstanding coach. Thanks Al. I will be purchasing more sessions.
Your life is working, and your dating life doesn't match it
You're done guessing and want to understand what's actually going on
You'll put in 2–3 hours a week of real practice
You want a dating life you choose — and eventually a relationship worth having
This isn't for you if
You want scripts to manipulate women
You want someone to agree that women are the problem
You're looking for a quick fix without doing the work
You're in a relationship and looking outside it
Find your leak.
The Dating Strategy Assessment takes 3 minutes. You'll get a personal diagnosis of where your dating life breaks down, what's keeping it stuck — and what to stop wasting time on.
If it looks like coaching is a fit, you'll have the option to book a private Dating Strategy Session.
No. No scripts, no fake persona. You learn how attraction works and build the skill to create it as yourself.
I've watched a lot of dating content. Why would this be different?
Content can't see you. I diagnose your specific leak, review your real messages and dates, and adjust every week.
How much time does it take?
One weekly session plus 2–3 hours of real-world practice.
What does it cost?
The Dating Reset is a premium private program. We'll go through the investment on your Strategy Session, once we know it's the right fit for you. Payment plans are available.
What if I'm older / divorced / inexperienced?
That's exactly why it's private coaching and not a course. The plan is built around your situation.
Is the Strategy Session a sales call?
It's a real session: we look at your situation, find what's holding you back and map what should change. If coaching makes sense, I'll explain how it works. If it doesn't, I'll tell you.
Do you guarantee a girlfriend?
No one honest can. I guarantee the work: if you do your part and don't make clear progress on your goals, I keep coaching you free for up to 4 more weeks.
